When we share our lives on the internet, we often open them up to criticism. This young couple, who simply enjoys posting pictures together, received backlash from people over their relationship.
However, their response to the criticism is brilliant — and a powerful reminder of the importance of standing firm in your beliefs.
The story of Matt and Brittany Montgomery is common yet still wonderful. The couple met, fell in love, and began building a life together.
While their situation may sound ordinary, one unique element stands out: their size difference. Brittany has struggled with acceptance her entire life. Her relationship with her parents was often strained and controlling, leaving her emotionally drained.
All of this contributed to her having little confidence in herself or her body. As a plus‑size woman, she often encountered two types of men — those who wanted her to lose weight, and those who fetishized her curves. These painful experiences pushed her to consider giving up on dating altogether.
But fate had other plans. In August 2020, she crossed paths with Matt Montgomery on Facebook. Despite their physical differences, their souls connected instantly. Brittany recalled, “I was a bit hesitant at first. I’ve been in relationships where guys told me they would dump me if I didn’t start dieting or trying to lose weight… It did affect my self‑confidence.”
Still, the two were certain about one another and deeply in love. Matt proposed on January 30, 2022, and they began planning their future.
Even though they fully accept each other, they shared how the world judges their relationship. Matt said, “People comment on Instagram and suggest that I’m not big enough or man enough for her.” He added, “I do notice people staring when we walk down the street…”
Despite the criticism from people who fail to understand their connection, the couple has nothing but love for each other. Matt himself had negative experiences with conventionally sized women in the past. The way Brittany makes him feel helped him realize she is his true soulmate.
Perfect response He accepts her exactly as she is and focuses on making her happy. He openly expresses his appreciation for her. In one post, he wrote, “You are worthy, you are deserving of infinite love every single day and more. The way I look at you and feel for you and the way you look and feel for me is how I know that we are meant to be.”
His caption shows that despite rude comments on their photos, he loves his wife deeply and their bond goes far beyond the physical. A perfect response to the haters.
The couple hopes to break the stigma around “mixed‑weight” relationships. “I wish mixed‑weight relationships were more common and more in the norm,” Brittany said.
The young couple welcomed their daughter, Lakelyn, in March 2022, and just last month announced they are expecting their second child in September 2023. We wish them all the best.
Truly, there are no set rules when it comes to finding real love and what makes someone happy. We should all accept and love one another — without judgment.
